Why Mediate?

1. Save Time & Money

• Mediation is a lot cheaper than going to court. Legal fees can be financially crippling in a drawn-out court case, while mediation is a fraction of the cost. Lots of parents prefer to use the money they saved by avoiding court to take the kids on a holiday instead.

• Court cases take months or even years, while mediation can resolve things in weeks.

• Less time in legal limbo means more time moving forward with your life.

Example: A family court case can take 12+ months, while most mediations wrap up in a couple of sessions.

2. Stay in Control (Instead of a Judge Deciding for You)

• Mediation allows you and your co-parent to decide on parenting, property, and finances—rather than handing everything over to a judge.

• You can tailor agreements to suit your family’s needs instead of taking a chance on the unknown outcome of court ruling.

Example: Instead of a judge dictating a parenting plan, you can create a schedule that works around school, work, and kids’ activities.

3. Reduce Stress & Conflict

• Court is highly adversarial, with lawyers arguing against each other, creating more tension.

• Mediation is collaborative—helping both sides find common ground instead of deepening resentment.

• Less conflict = a better emotional environment for you and your kids.

Did you know? Studies show that parents who mediate are more likely to successfully co-parent and avoid future disputes.

4. Protect Your Kids from the Drama

• The #1 predictor of long-term harm to children after separation is high parental conflict.

• Mediation keeps communication open, civil, and focused on what’s best for your kids—not just what each parent wants.

• Children do better emotionally and academically when parents resolve things amicably.

Example: Instead of kids being dragged into a legal battle (or used as messengers between parents), mediation helps create a child-focused plan that prioritises stability and security.

5. It’s Private & Confidential

• Mediation is 100% confidential—unlike court, which is a public record.

• What you say in mediation stays in mediation (except in cases of risk to safety or law-breaking).

• There’s no court transcript, no public airing of grievances, and no need to relive everything in front of lawyers, judges, and strangers.

Did you know? Anything said in mediation can’t be used as evidence in court, which allows both sides to negotiate openly.

6. It’s Legally Recognised & Can Be Made Binding

• Agreements made in mediation can be formalised into legally binding Consent Orders or Binding Financial Agreements.

• If mediation doesn’t work out, you’ll receive a Section 60I Certificate, which allows you to apply for family court.

Tip: A Parenting Plan created in mediation can be turned into a legally enforceable order if needed.

7. It Sets You Up for a More Peaceful Future

• Separation isn’t just about now—it’s about what happens next. Mediation helps set the foundation for better co-parenting, smoother communication, and fewer fights down the road.

• Even if you don’t leave as best friends, mediation can help you develop a workable, respectful system as co-parents.

💡 Example: Mediation helps parents set clear rules for future discussions, like agreeing to email instead of speaking to reduce conflict.

Mediation = A Smarter, Smoother, and Saner Separation

Mediation helps you:
✅ Save time, money, and stress
✅ Stay in control of decisions
✅ Protect your kids from unnecessary conflict
✅ Keep your separation as smooth as possible

💡 Need to get started? Contact us to book your intake session today.